Yadda ake jima'i a aikace *

Wani abu mai mahimmanci sosai ga dukkan ma'aurata watau maigida da uwargida ko ango da amarya shi ne sanin yadda ake jima’i a aikace. Indai har kana son samun nutsuwa a zama da masoyiyar ka, ko iyalinka ko amaryarka, idan ka kasance ango kenan. Haka kuma idan kina son samun nutsuwa a zama da masoyin ki, ko mijinki ko kuma nace angonki idan ke ɗin amarya ce, to tabbas akwai buƙatar sanin ilimin jima’i a bayyane gareka ko gareki.  

Shi dai jima’i shine tarawa a tsakanin iyali ko nace kwanciyar aure wanda ta hanyar sa ne ake samun ƙaruwar zuri’a da kuma ƙara danƙo da danshin soyayya, wanda kuma wannan danƙon da kuma danshin soyayyar sune za suke tallafawa wurin riƙe ku a matsayin masoyan juna kuma ma'aurata, idan kukai sa'a soyayyar taku ta rayu har tsufan ku, ku zama abinda hausawan nan ke kira da "mutu ka raba, takalmin kaza". Ma'ana dai, a shaideku da cewa ku ɗin masoyan juna ne na har abada. Mai ya kai wannan cin ribar soyayya da daɗin zama?

Haka kuma idan kuna son zamanku yayi kyau da ƙarƙo to dole ne ku nemo wannan abin da ake kira harmony, bayan love. Love wadda ita ake kira soyayya, haka nan da harmony wato ƙauna a hausance, sune ginshiƙai haka kuma sune shika shikan zaman aure na amana, aure na san barka, auren da za'a mutu tare cikin zuci. Uku daga cikin hanyoyin da za'a abi a samu love and harmony a ko kuma nace so da kauna a tsakanin masoya sune fa kamar haka;

-Zama na gaskiya 

-Soyayyar kan gado (Jima'i) 

-Wadatar zuci

Kunga duk ukun nan ?  Ina mai tabbatar muku cewa duk waɗanda sukayi riƙo da ukun nan to aurensu fa sai dai ƙaddara mai ƙarfin gaske wacce babu ganganci a cikinta, yawanci kuma ƙaddarar da bata canzuwa watau mutuwa, to itace kawai  a mafi yawan al'amura zata iya raba ma'aurata masu riƙo da gaskiya a tsakanin su, su kuma iya mu'amamala a kwanciyar aure, hakanan masu wadatar zuci to sun samu komai. 

Amma abun baƙin ciki, kashi tara cikin goma na jama’a basu san sirrin ilimin jima’i ba. Idan kuka auna lissafin zaku ga irin yawan yawan mutuwar auren da ake fama dashi yau a ƙasar hausa, ɗaya daga cikin shika shikai na dalilan saki ko mutuwar auren akwai rashin daɗin jima'i a tsakanin ma'aurata, mutane da yawa basu sani ba, kuma basu farga da hakan ba, waɗanda suka sani kuma ba faɗa muku zasuyi ba, suma kuma waɗanda suka sani suka ƙi faɗa suna da dalili mai ƙarfi. Menene dalilinsu ? 

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Sha'ani na jima'i ba wai abune da za'a zauna ana tattaunawa a tsakanin al'umma ba, saboda abune na sirri. Eh! Sosai domin ko addini da shari'a an horemu damu sirranta sha'anin kwanciyar aure, kaga kenan ga mutum mai wayo dolene yaje ya koyo ilimin yadda zai riƙa yin jima'i domin jima'in kansa yana da haƙƙoƙinsa waɗanda idan aka bisu to akanci ribar soyayya a tsakanin ma'aurata. Ka tambayi kanka ko ki tambayi kanki a ina ne zan iya samo irin wannan ilimin jima'in? Sai ku garzayo kuzo gashi an rubuta don ƙaruwarku. 

A dai dai nan inda ka samu kanka kake karatun nan yanzu, to kasa a ranka cewar; you are in the right place at the right time.. Kawai ka cigaba da karanta wannan rubutun domin fahimtar yadda ake jima'i a aikace. 

Kamar yadda nasha bayyanawa a makamantan rubutu irin wannan, dolene miji da mata su fahimta, su kuma aiwatar da wasannin soyayya kafin su kaiga yin jima'i, ma'ana dai saduwar aure, bature yace sexual intercourse. Waɗannan wasannin sune kaɗai zasu sa ku samu shauƙi da mararin junanku kafin jima'i, yayin jima'i da kuma bayan jima'in. Kuyi wasanni domin tado sha'awar junanku, ko kuma domin tayar da sha'awar ɗayanku. Kunsan sau tari namiji zai zo da buƙatarsa ga iyali ko uwargida amma ita kuma bata jin sha'awa to wannan wasannin sune zasu sa sha'awarta tazo. Haka kaima maigida ko ango yayin da duk sha'awar uwargida ko amarya ta motsa ta hanyar wasannin nan ne zata dawo da kai kan network. Kaji ka a duniyar sama. 

Kuyi wasannin shafa jikin juna, da kisses, ka tsotseta ta tsotseka, ka sha nonuwanta kasha gindinta, haka itama ta tsotse kan kaciyarka. 

Idan wasannin nan naku suka kai maƙura sau tari ta macen da kanta take kama kan kaciyar namijin ta zira a yankan gindinta saboda tsananin buƙatarsa da takeyi a wannan matakin. 

Amma ku auna ku gani idan namijin kawai yazo ya faɗawa mace da niyyar cinta ba tare da waɗannan wasannin ba. Wasu za kuga har da cizo da yakushi suke haɗawa wasu mazan yayin da suka zo musu ta wannan sigar. Haka suma matan idan suka zowa mazansu da zimmar samun nishaɗi amma ba tare da tazo masa da wasannin soyayya ba, sai kaga yanayin abin ba tare da sha'awa ba sai dai gundura zalla. 

Bayan kunyi wasannin nan kun gwangwaje, ku dakanku a zukatanku zaku ayyana irin salon saduwar data dace daku. Idan daga tsaye kuke waɗannan wasannin soyayyar to yawanci masoya a wannan lokacin sukan zaɓi salon saduwar goho ne, ba don komai ba sai don tafi sauri babu ɓata lokaci. Tana zabga masa gohon nan to abinda ya rage kawai shine ya kamo kan al-gajubbarsa ya shiga cikin farjinta. 

Kunga dai ga wannan gohon da zata yi masa, shi kuma ya saka azzakarinsa a cikin gindinta, anan take cinikin wasan ya shiga kuma duk wannan abun daya faru cikin abun da baifi ƴan sakanni bane, to amma zasu ji shauƙi da daɗi da garɗin jima'insu saboda sunyi wasannin soyayya. Wannan salon jima'in ba wani salo bane na daban illa salon jima'in da kuka fi sani da doggy style. 

Idan ma'aurata suka san salon yadda ake yin jima’i a aikace zasu samu damar gamsar da junansu ba tare da gajiya ba. 

Mijinki kuma zai iya zama a gefen gado ƙafafunsa na ƙasa, ke kuma sai ki juya masa baya ki zauna akan sa, ki saita dakyau yadda azzakarinsa zai lume cikin farjin ki, kiji shi ya cika ki taf yadda kike so ɗinnan, yana shafa ɗuwaiwanki ke kuma kina sama da ƙasa, idan kika gaji sai ya riƙe ƙugun ki gefe da gefe ya cigaba da buga gindinki. Idan kuna so ku cigaba a haka har sai kun samu gamsuwa. Matuƙar kuna yin irin wannan salon kwanciyar jima'in to zaku daɗe kuna mararin juna. Kuma wannan salon kwanciyar jima'in dana yi bayani akai yanzu salon doggy style ne a zaune. 

Oga zai kwanta a gado yana kallon sama. ke kuma sai ki hau kansa kisa masa nononki a baki yana tsotsa, ki saita sa dakyau ki cigaba da buga gwatso a kansa har ku biyawa kanku buƙata. 

Mace zata kwanta ta kifa cikinta, ma'ana tayi rub da ciki, oga na bayanki yana zura burarsa yana kaiwa da komawa, zai iya yi a zaune zai kuma iya kwanciya duk a bayanki, wannan salon yadda ake jima'i a aikace mai daɗi ne ga ma'aurata. Za kiji azzzkarin sa har cikin maɗaɗar jin daɗinki. 

Mace zata ɗan ɗagowa namiji ƙirjinta yasa hannunsa ya kama nonuwanta yana wasa dasu. zata ɗinga ɗan ware ƙafarta tana kuma tsukewa. Matar dake son mijinta yana saurin kawowa ko kuma namiji mai ƙarami ko madaidaicin azzakari su riƙa gwada wannan salon kwanciyar jima’in, bashi kaɗai ba harke sai kinji daɗinshi. 

Wannan shine salon yadda ake yin jima'i a aikace. Maigida ko ango ko nace ɗa namiji ko ɗan samari, da kuma uwargida sarautar mata, ko amarya ko ɗiya mace ina kira gareku daku riƙa karanta iri irin salon kwanciyar jima'i ku koya, kuma ku aiwatar a aikace. Dayawa wasu basu iya salon kwanciyar ba, kada ke mace kice kunyar mijinki kike ji domin yadda kika tafiyar dashi haka zai cigaba da zama, idan kuma ya ƙara wani auren zai iya samun wacce tafiki iya komai kinga dole hankalinsa ya karkata kan amarya. 

Faƙat !

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